An academic once visited a Zen master in order to learn about Zen.
The master served tea. As he poured, the cup began to overflow.
The professor said nothing, and the master continued to pour.
Eventually, the academic said, “The cup is full. No more will go in.”
And the master replied:
“Your mind is the cup of tea. It is overflowing with ideas and preconceived notions. How will you learn about Zen if you’re not willing to empty your cup?”
YOUR CUP IS OVERFLOWING
“This is how I do things.”
“It’s worked before.”
“Because I know.”
As creatures of pattern recognition, we take all of our learnings and apply them to the specific fact pattern in front of us.
Most of the time, that process works well.
Sometimes, though, the rigidity of all those stored ideas can prevent us from growing even more.
Our past can be inflexible.
Our accumulated knowledge can make us overconfident.
So what can we do about it?
EMPTY YOUR CUP
With humility, acknowledge that you may not know something.
Allow yourself to be a beginner again.
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Accept the fact that you don’t know what you don’t know.
And explore the situation in front of you as a child would — with curiosity and wonder.
On this cold and rainy evening, may I offer you some tea?
Before I pour, please empty your cup.